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Dorothy Dillemuth

  • On August 3, 2026
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Mrs. Dorothy Dillemuth, a longtime resident of Grand Island, New York passed away on August 2, 2026 having reached the age of 99 years.

Dorothy was born in Buffalo, New York in April 1927 and was the oldest of three daughters by Mr. Harry Waltman and Mrs. Ivy Mashford-Waltman. One sister, Mrs. Laurel Moher had previously passed away but she is survived by her youngest sister, Dawn Bukowski.

Dorothy was baptized in Niagara Falls on May 11th, 1930.   For much of her early life, she lived on Grand Island and was a charter member of St Timothy’s Lutheran church.   She was also a member of Faith Chapter #722 of the Order of the Eastern Star.  Dorothy became a member of the Grand Island School District in 1953 and subsequently served as the head of the guidance department for 17 years.  In 1979, she was appointed interim superintendent of the Grand Island School district to manage affairs during what had become a tumultuous period.   After successfully reorienting the district, Dorothy was appointed superintendent of the Green School District near Binghamton, New York.  Later, she accepted superintendent positions in Pennsylvania, earning a reputation as a trouble shooter who could restore both fiscal and academic discipline in troubled districts.   Her last posting was to the Houston School District.

For her retirement hobby, Dorothy earned an advanced Degree in Taxation and performed volunteer work doing taxes for elderly and lower income people.  She was known for her unofficial ministry of sending birthday cards to “shut-ins” and others who would not otherwise receive any type of greeting.  Lastly, she was a prolific donator to numerous charities and a master of self-discipline in that she never missed an appointment with her favorite hair dresser.

Dorothy is survived by her long-time partner, Allan Junker.  She was previously married to Irwin Dillemuth (deceased) and is survived by three children and in-laws; Charles Dillemuth & Betty Barnett, Mike & Lois Dillemuth, Ivy & Charles Silviera.  She also has two grandsons; Mark and Matthew Perrault.

Memorial service will be held at 11:00 on Tuesday, August 4th at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in McMurray.  Dorothy will later be interned in Buffalo New York.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Pittsburgh Cremation & Funeral Care, McMurray, PA

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Joseph and Deborah Quaranda
We never really met Dorothy but we are very close friends with Charlie and Betty. Every time that Charlie spoke to his mother you could see his eyes light up and really feel the love that a son has for his mother. Charlie and Betty would tell us that Dorothy really loved chocolate and would always squirrel away the good stuff. She loved scratching lottery tickets and was really good at hitting $100 winners. We were very sorry to hear of her passing and would like to give our deepest condolences to Charlie and Betty, Dawn, Allan, Mike and Lois, Ivy and Charles, Mark and Matthew. Dorothy, consider this a big hug from Debbie and I and we wish you Gods love and grace. May you rest in peace.
Cath Giles
I never had the opportunity to meet Dorothy but I am good friends of Charlie and Betty. I enjoyed always hearing stories of what an extraordinary woman Dorothy was. Last time Charlie and Betty visited his mother in April, I sent her a Sarris Birthday candy bar. Betty told me how much she loved chocolate and how she kept it under 🔐 and 🔑 for a night time or morning snack. Hold on to all the memories and know that an angel is watching down from heaven now. Love you guys, Cathy & family
Diane D Orr
My condolences to survivors in Dorothy's life. I was a teacher at Grand Island HS and Dorothy D. was a no -nonsense colleague which I appreciated. She was also on the Board of Faculty loans and she gave me the best financial advice. I left in'78 and missed the tumultuous period (obituary) but I can bet she straightened a lot of folks out!! May she rest in peace. Diane Orr
Diane D Orr
My condolences to survivors in Dorothy's life. I was a teacher at Grand Island HS and Dorothy D. was a no -nonsense colleague which I appreciated. She was also on the Board of Faculty loans and she gave me the best financial advice. I left in'78 and missed the tumultuous period (obituary) but I can bet she straightened a lot of folks out!! May she rest in peace.
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